The questions I have asked

I have a question strictly for the Following people:

Atheist, Relative man and humanist man:

I have noted the pride they take in their hate not of the Christian but of the Christ and the teachings that come from the faith.
Many have said and made clear they revile the Ten Commandments some have called them unethical vile evil and disgusting; But when asked why none has ever given a reason why.
Always their responses take on a personal nature but never has anyone of these so thoughtful intelligent people ever explained why the commandments are to them evil vile or disgusting.

I asked them to tell which god is being proposed? Where in them are they told they must do anything they do not wish to? (choice is always theirs)
I proposed that a god or idol could be what ever they choose, football team singer movie star even them self for the humanist relative man and atheist deny they worship anything yet always they set self above all.
So I proposed that since it said do not bow down to an image you are taking offense at that? For you worship one of these many things or what is evident you worship yourself. This same principal hold then true of the taking of the name in vain or in simple speak maligning of a movie star a singer a favorite team a car or yourself.
That covers the first three so explain how they offend you.

The next one must be the most evil of them all; for it says in simple speak all men should have no less than one day of rest. What a terrible thing to teach and say. But relative humanist man and Atheist tell men how is that offending?

Comes now an even more evil thing to do: teaching children to honor their parents other adults and civil authority, this has got to be the one that is the most offending of all right?

Or perhaps it is this respecting your partner not cheating on your spouse. Yes, this is it then; this is what is evil and vile for all to do; the honoring the person you say you love in all ways. Yes, this is vile and evil to do…

I still do not understand why they are so evil or vile but hey I am only a follower of the Christ who said those who are mine will follow being taught and keeping these commands. This why you hate me?

Now we come to this one do not do murder, it does not talk about war instituted by governments it talks of speaks to acts and actions between the individuals do not do murder. Murder is a planned act it is something one chooses to do for personal gain for ones own self interest.
So is it this one that is evil and vile? Or do you feel that taking an innocent life is justify no matter what, for the ends justify the means.

Now we are nearing the end so is it the teaching of our children to not lie or steal or be envious of what others have that is evil to you and unethical.

Rules for all young women

To all young women daughters all:
I can not judge you or your frineds. I can however tell you what I have learned in fifty plus years.

so I offer these eight rules and the following comments:

1, once a jerk he is always a jerk this applies to women also.
2, you can not change anyone, only your self
3..once you realize rules one and two are true, happy you can be
4 if he loves you he will do all he can to make you happy,
This means he is selfless and giving;lifting you up giving you honor and respect
5. if he tells you do this or that because you love him,
Then he is selfish self centered. he should be doing this for you
6. if you have had to give of your self to keep him,
that is lust and again selfish of him, porn can count as a form of adultery, what one thinks is what one does.
7. if he desires you and says wait!
count him a saint and a selfless man of God

Now number 8 is for new beginnings:
8. My dear daughter for you all good things will come; here is how.
to those who pray and patiently wait upon the lord.

NOW MY FOUR COMMENTS:
1. Most people do not change; they put on an appearance of change,
yet too acquire what they desire. read rule 1 above.
2. Most young women such as your self feel they can change or aid in the change of the man; they feel for. Refer back to rule 2 above.
3. most young men desire and will use the line if you love me, you will do this for me.
You have eluded to this. refer to rule 5
4. those who realize there is a problem
1. step back and seek council,
Most avoid the best council those with wisdom , who should you ask:
Parents grandparents Minister.
For myself I always went to my father and asked him. I valued his advise and council. Sometimes I did not agree for it went against how I felt and yet it was always the right way to go. My grand father said learn from others mistakes and do not in hast make a choice you will regret. My Father, has passed away but he would say to as I do now : step back and go to your parents.

Refer to rule eight on the list, rest on it. I have advised my own daughter with this same advice. It sounds hard but get a good education a good job and then let God find your husband for you. It will happen all in good time may you be blessed.
About rules 5 or 6. For he has no right to these things. They are for your husband only.This same holds true for men.